Wednesday, 29 October 2014

life of a SAHM


Sent our helper back and we were without a helper for the past week
Was actually quite happy without this helper, my blood pressure also went down a bit without her making me angry and frustrated every day. Since she got a hp, she decided to move into the utility room to sleep even though we provided her with a room to sleep in. She will talk on the phone and messaged through the night, as i can hear her even at 4am!
Then when it is morning, she looks like a panda and her work is terrible. even simple cup washing.. she can wash and leave large amount of coffee residue at the bottom. Told her about a mistake and she still repeated it multiple times.. as nothing gets in.
No eye contact when we talk to her or try to teach her things in a nice manner and she even walked away.
In the day, the most energetic i have seen of her is when a fellow maid called her from the corridor downstairs or come up to my house to chat with her at the corridor!!!
Then it progressed to her chatting on the phone with them when they called out to her from downstrairs, and giggling away when i was alone with the kids at home. I told her that she shld not use the phone when we are all busy. She then lied to say cos her husband is sick. Such giggling and laughing when her husband is sick.. and then she shouted that is was only 5 min of chatting.. and she said she would move to the streets to sleep then.
That was the last straw and I sent her back the very night.
Without seeing her face when i wake up the next day.. i actually felt so happy and relieved.
I started to do the housework and cleaned the house.. and felt happy about the condition of my house
Also discovered all the terrible things she had done.. like keeping rubbish in the children's drawers, just stuffing anything in.. even plastic bags, crushed paper etc as she was too lazy to pack. Damaged my chairs (not just the one above) and many other things.


Unfortunately Brandon fell sick during this period.
Spiked fever of 39.5 for at least 4 days in a row.. despite augmentin
Took quite a while to settle....

But in the meantime, i could cook nice food for the family

Scallop egg..

What was most satisfying was the boys helping me with chores.
now brian is good at folding clothes and keeping them in the wardrobe.
And what was even better was that i could see that the kids were not so frustated too.. less temper tantrums.
Because we pack up everything before sleep and they could find where their things were.
Previously the helper would just dump things into anywhere convenient, and u might find a pair of scissors or markers with toys instead of in the stationery box. hence the boys would get frustrated not being able to locate their things..
How one person could mess up your life... and i am really glad she is no longer ard..

Deepavali


All dressed up for the Deepavali celebration in school

Brian and his classmates

Rare for him to take photo with a girl..

Brandon's classmates
Brandon is not into dressing up.. unlike Brian

More of Brandon's classmates

Glad to see them having fun.. and learn lots of things about deepavali
In fact.. i learnt new things when they came back and told me about it

"Rongoli" which brandon put in front of his room door..
To celebrate Deepavali!

happy Birthday Daddy

Brian made this all by himself.. with some help from brandon
He found one of my old shoe box, put 2 his favourite toy inside, and wrapped it up with paper
Wrote the words and brandon helped with the decoration

He gave it to Daddy first thing in the morning
Brian told me " luckily i can make my own present and save money rite?"
Then he offered to use his money to buy a cake for Daddy.
When i asked brandon if he would contribute his money for the cake too.. This is what brandon said "I think Brian's money is enough to buy the cake"...

Initially had to go to the maid agency to confirm our new helper, but it got delayed and hence we managed to have a mini celebration at home..
Happy Bday daddY!

Eugenie's bday party


All ready to go for Eugenie's bday party!

Good time for the gals to dress up...

Elysa and the children..

Brandon making the giant bubble

Initially the boys did not want to join in as they said these things are too girly
Eventually they ended up having fun!

More games

Happy Birthday to Eugenie!

Enjoying themselves while waiting for the food..
Great fun for the boys although at the end they still complained that it was too girly..

Things we do at home...

I am not sure what this is.. like some obstacle course for the vehicles
Both of them usually spend quite a lot of time setting up these things and then have a car race on it...

Our new hobby... Origami!


It started after one art class on origami.. and Brandon wanted to buy the origami paper and then the books..

The things we have done.. from fruits to vegetables to random things like trees and hearts

As we became better... we did cakes...

And then Brian became very interested too
Brandon made a plate for him to serve his watermelon..


We progressed to make animals...

House made with Brian when Brandon was already asleep

And the final ultimate ring that we made together..

Very proud and happy with the final product!

Tuesday, 28 October 2014

Some things we do over the weekends

The actually led me into this shop
What is it about boys and men and sports shop

They said they are mannequins

Rock climing at sports hub

Another new toy from Daiso
All ready to take over Daddy's work
He told daddy that he could work for him for free on weekends

The routine post art class

From one of the many great fruits that Paula gave us..

Promegranate ice cream.. we had it in its original form, in juice and in ice cream!

Monday, 13 October 2014

Meet up at Cool De Sac



Meeting Leanne at Cool de Sac (suntec)
Brian is very proud of his peppa pig shirt.. haha

If is nice to see the cousins interacting ..



The hungry children
And yes.. brandon also says he is 'always hungry"
eating a whole adult portion now.. and still gets hungry before the next meal..
And he is still so thin!!!


The big brother .. Brandon


A really big boy now..
Glad to see that he is now trying out all kinds of food, and has fallen in love with cheese..
Glad to see him act like a big brother and takes care of Brian
There was once when Brian felt unwell in the car. When we were about to reach, Brandon took my handbag and said " Mama, i help u take the bag and u carry brian upstairs. U put him gently on the bed ok.. and where shld i put your bag.. on the sofa or on the bed..?? Another instance at Giant supermarket, i told him to queue up with an item first while i get something else and join him. Halfway, he ran to me and said i did not give him money and what if he reaches the cashier before i am ready.
He is someone who thinks a lot and plans a lot ahead.. Very neat in his work and loves colouring and artwork.
A creative boy with lots of ideas and always able to plan new games for us to take part in.
Rather disciplined in a way .. came back from his eye check and wrote on his board that he will not watch ipad as it is bad for his eyes... and he stopped watching.
And of cos when he thinks a lot, he tends to worry a bit more too.. about bringing things to school, abt disturbing class and having to go to the toilet.. Hope he tackles these things well and learn to strike a balance..
Most importantly.. be a happy boy!

The little Brian


Growing up happily..
Always glad to try new things and activities.. and of cos new clothes and shoes
Particular about his clothes and appearance... :)
Will notice new accessories that i wear and comment on them (When daddy did not even notice..)
A passionate boy with lots of hugs and kissess...

This picture was taken by the teachers during one of the recent field trip to the insect kingdom
Brian with the butterfly on his hand.. he told me only him and another classmate did that as he wanted to try everything new
Happy to hear that from him :)
Happy to know that he is enjoying school at LWPS, and looking forward to these activities
Getting really good at reading now, and has progressed well to yellow heart in school
Confident in himself and takes things easy in school, not afraid to ask for things that he wants..
I have seen him grow and develop in these areas..
:)

I am invited!


I got this from the boys..




I am invitied to Daddy's bday party!! Wahaha..


Sports Day/Children's Day 2014

Brian with the beanbag on his head and Ms Chia Ling cheering for him.

Brian doing his best in the race!
Too bad the lighting was not too good and i did not bring my camera..

Brandon all ready to charge.. with Zhou Lao Shi cheering him on!


Skipping

The blue team..

The yellow team
One of Brandon's best friend.. victoria

The teacher helped us take a photo..

The parent-child game
Brandon was really good at it!


Got Brian to participate in the last min!
 
And he had great fun!

Another of Brandon's best friend Aiden.
Aiden's Daddy picked them up early from school and brought them all to his house...
And of cos they had great fun!!!



Brandon arranged his presents from his teacher..
Happy just to look at it.

Brian arranged too.. and that was only half of the presents from school!!
 
More of it!!!